1. Don't just talk about what you like to talk, instead,share what is valuable of others' time and attention.------ That is necessary to keep people focused and the conversation meaningful.
Remember, nobody has time for your blah.
2. Try to find the other's language.
Sometimes, you try very hard but you still cannot go through the conversation smoothly. You should think about to speak their language(not literally). For example, when you speak with youg child, you should find a way to make them listen to you. Then you should use the word and logic that they can understand. I think I have made a lot progress on how to talk with my son.
However, I never try to understand my parents' language. What they want to listen, what they want to talk about, what make them happy and satisfactory, what worry them most. I never try to adjust myself to their level or put myself in their shoes. I will definitely need work this out.
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